Sunday, June 21, 2026 · Resources · 1 Samuel 17:25-49

What About Manhood?

Our culture is deeply confused about manhood. Some say masculinity itself is the problem; others say it means dominance, aggression, and power. Preaching on Father's Day from his deployment in the Middle East, Pastor James Drake takes us into one of the most famous scenes in Scripture — David and Goliath, 1 Samuel 17 — and shows that the valley is crowded with three men, but only one of them understands what true manhood looks like. There is Goliath: nearly ten feet tall, all strength and pride, using his power for his own glory. That is toxic masculinity — strength without submission, which always ends in destruction. There is Saul: the biggest, most experienced, most responsible man in Israel, who hears the giant and does absolutely nothing. That is passive masculinity — the fear of man instead of the fear of God, and Drake argues it is the greater and more overlooked threat today: men waiting for someone else to lead, to pray, to step up. And then there is David: not toxic, not passive, but strong — courageous, humble, and utterly dependent on God. The thesis runs through the whole message like a drumbeat: biblical masculinity is strength surrendered to God for His glory and the good of others. Drake reminds us that David was not prepared in the valley but in the pasture — faithful with lions and bears that nobody saw, long before the giant nobody could miss. Everyone wants the platform; nobody wants the process. But here is the twist: we are not really David in this story. We are Israel — afraid, powerless, unable to save ourselves — until our true Champion steps forward. Jesus is the greater David. David defeated a giant; Jesus defeats sin and death, and shares the victory with His people. The hope of Christianity is not that you become David; it is that Jesus becomes your Savior. So what do we do? We run toward our giant. Faith moves; fear hesitates. Most giants don't live in valleys — they live in our homes, our marriages, our parenting, our habits, our fears, and our excuses. Not perfect men, but faithful men, whose strength is surrendered to God.

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1 SAMUEL 17:25-49 (ESV)

And the men of Israel said, “Have you seen this man who has come up? Surely he has come up to defy Israel. And the king will enrich the man who kills him with great riches and will give him his daughter and make his father’s house free in Israel.” And David said to the men who stood by him, “What shall be done for the man who kills this Philistine and takes away the reproach from Israel? For who is this uncircumcised Philistine, that he should defy the armies of the living God?” And the people answered him in the same way, “So shall it be done to the man who kills him.” Now Eliab his eldest brother heard when he spoke to the men. And Eliab’s anger was kindled against David, and he said, “Why have you come down? And with whom have you left those few sheep in the wilderness? I know your presumption and the evil of your heart, for you have come down to see the battle.” And David said, “What have I done now? Was it not but a word?” And he turned away from him toward another, and spoke in the same way, and the people answered him again as before. When the words that David spoke were heard, they repeated them before Saul, and he sent for him. And David said to Saul, “Let no man’s heart fail because of him. Your servant will go and fight with this Philistine.” And Saul said to David, “You are not able to go against this Philistine to fight with him, for you are but a youth, and he has been a man of war from his youth.” But David said to Saul, “Your servant used to keep sheep for his father. And when there came a lion, or a bear, and took a lamb from the flock, I went after him and struck him and delivered it out of his mouth. And if he arose against me, I caught him by his beard and struck him and killed him. Your servant has struck down both lions and bears, and this uncircumcised Philistine shall be like one of them, for he has defied the armies of the living God.” And David said, “The LORD who delivered me from the paw of the lion and from the paw of the bear will deliver me from the hand of this Philistine.” And Saul said to David, “Go, and the LORD be with you!” Then Saul clothed David with his armor. He put a helmet of bronze on his head and clothed him with a coat of mail, and David strapped his sword over his armor. And he tried in vain to go, for he had not tested them. Then David said to Saul, “I cannot go with these, for I have not tested them.” So David put them off. Then he took his staff in his hand and chose five smooth stones from the brook and put them in his shepherd’s pouch. His sling was in his hand, and he approached the Philistine. And the Philistine moved forward and came near to David, with his shield-bearer in front of him. And when the Philistine looked and saw David, he disdained him, for he was but a youth, ruddy and handsome in appearance. And the Philistine said to David, “Am I a dog, that you come to me with sticks?” And the Philistine cursed David by his gods. The Philistine said to David, “Come to me, and I will give your flesh to the birds of the air and to the beasts of the field.” Then David said to the Philistine, “You come to me with a sword and with a spear and with a javelin, but I come to you in the name of the LORD of hosts, the God of the armies of Israel, whom you have defied. This day the LORD will deliver you into my hand, and I will strike you down and cut off your head. And I will give the dead bodies of the host of the Philistines this day to the birds of the air and to the wild beasts of the earth, that all the earth may know that there is a God in Israel, and that all this assembly may know that the LORD saves not with sword and spear. For the battle is the LORD’s, and he will give you into our hand.” When the Philistine arose and came and drew near to meet David, David ran quickly toward the battle line to meet the Philistine. And David put his hand in his bag and took out a stone and slung it and struck the Philistine on his forehead. The stone sank into his forehead, and he fell on his face to the ground.

PROVERBS 29:25 (ESV)

The fear of man lays a snare, but whoever trusts in the LORD is safe.

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